“I honestly believe if we would do more praying and less criticizing we would have a better nation,” Southern Baptist Convention President Steve Gaines said Feb. 14.
Speaking to a group of writers, editors and communicators, Gaines shared how at 60 he can look back now and see he has grown in this area himself.
“As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten kinder,” he said. “(I want to be) prudent, wise and merciful.
“I used to be a little bit more hard than I am now. … A lot of it is how you see the people you are preaching to. I no longer see them as rebels who need to repent. I see them as people who are hurting and need to be set free.”
Gaines added, “If we are filled with the Spirit, it is the fruit of the Spirit that is going to come out.”
As I listened to Gaines share that day, I recalled how the fruit of the Spirit outlined in Galatians 5:22–23 became a foundational Scripture for me as soon as I chose Jesus fully and completely at 19 years old.
I stray often but the simple, straightforward outline of qualities God desires for our lives to exhibit are always there to keep me grounded and bring me back when I slip — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.
The goal is for all of these characteristics to exist in our hearts.
I’ve heard some note how starting with love allows you to develop each of the traits, one building on the other.
I’ve also heard how they are not individual attributes in and of themselves, that they are all essential characteristics of the fruit and must all be present for there to be fruit.
It’s always humbling to me when I go back to Galatians and recenter on each of the nine and see where some are missing and the ripple effect that caused.
If we were to only consider the first one — love — because it is February, then we might think about the depth of what that means and how we are called to love our enemies as well as our friends.
Real kind of love
Some people are hard to love, it’s true. And even the ones who aren’t hard to love still come with complex natures and baggage that sometimes surface whether intentionally or unintentionally.
No matter the relationship, we aren’t called to a fake, syrupy kind of act but a true, sacrificial, real kind of love.
It’s certainly not possible in our own strength. We must see others through the eyes of Christ.
—Jennifer Davis Rash